Monday, December 27, 2010

A Summary of a Good Man's Life

Sarcasm is attributed to Samuel O. Pratt’s nearly fifty living descendents. Some of the sarcastic fifty remember his cocked eyebrow, a smirk, a tone of voice that was undeniably his; and three words he said under his breath “Smart ass kid”. This term of endearment that Samuel Pratt’s children remember with fondness, is also connected to the memory of a soft and loving heart which he shared freely with all. During the interviews I have conducted with his family over the past several weeks and the memoir written about his life by his daughter Kira, memories are always turned with fondness to the love that he had for his family, especially towards the end of his life. I can but summarize the story of Samuel Pratt’s life in these pages, as every day of his life was full of adventure, love, talent, heartbreak, sorrow, humor or passion, but alas it might be enough to glimpse into the heart of a good man.

On March 20, 1925 Samuel Orson Pratt was born to goodly parents Rey L. Pratt and Mary Stark Pratt in El Paso, Texas. Rey and Mary were the parents to twelve children and the adopted parents of hundreds of Latter Day Saint missionaries of the Mexican Mission. Samuel’s parents were instrumental in leading, protecting and strengthening missionaries and Mexican members of the LDS church during the Mexican revolution in the early twentieth century. In accepting the call to serve in Mexico for a second time Rey stated the following.

“I enjoy my work [in Mexico]. True it is I have seen some horrible things during my stay there. For months in the City of Mexico we awakened every morning to the music of cannons. Day after day we saw houses and even people burning in the streets. And yet I am ready to go back and stay as long as the servants of the Lord shall desire it.”

Rey also opened the doors for LDS missionaries to preach and serve in Argentina, and were instrumental in the translation of LDS church literature from English to Spanish. Samuel Pratt’s “one clear memory of his father was of standing with him at a washbasin while his father washed his (Sammy’s) hands and told him he must always be a good boy, a big boy (Pratt 4).” In April of 1931, amidst the constant strain of Rey’s travel and work, Rey’s health suffered and worsened until in April 1931 after an LDS General Conference, Rey L. Pratt underwent a hernia operation in Salt Lake City, Utah. While in recovery, his condition deteriorated, and he died on April 14 1931, leaving behind his wife and ten surviving children. On April 17 1931, hundreds of people filled the Salt Lake Assembly Hall at Temple Square for Rey L. Pratt’s funeral. Sitting in that assembly, six year old Samuel might have felt fear, loneliness, and possibly even abandonment to have lost his father to death so early in his life, but he probably remembered that day at the wash basin as his father, a man beyond his years and called of God, said to him “Be a good boy, a big boy.” One thing that I have learned from stories such as these is that the human spirit either falls into despair unable to be revived, or it will rise from the dust and soar across the heavens. Rey’s surviving family picked up the shattered pieces of their lives and moved to Provo, Utah and began to live to soar.

Samuel finished his childhood in Provo, Utah and withheld the Mexican and Texan influences his whole life with a special love for the food and music. My father tells that later on in his life, he had an ability to find good quality Mexican food in almost every place he lived. Growing up in the shadow of the beautiful Mount Timpanogas, Samuel quickly fell in love with his new home. He involved himself right away with the music programs in the Provo public school systems. When he reached high school he was playing the flute at the top of his class. From his high school band, Samuel’s friend Darrell Stubbs remembers him “sitting and performing flawlessly on first flute in Wesley Pearce’s Provo High School Band with Darrell under his right elbow” and remembers “the black eye Sam got, in a fight with Calvin Whatcott over a girl (was it Nelma Jean Jones?),” as well as Darrell’s playing third flute (on oboe) in a Kuhlau trio on the steps of the County Building downtown with Sam and Allen Jensen and the neat write-up [in the newspaper] the next day (Pratt 5).” Music was his passion as he so demonstrated at an early age, a passion that would follow him throughout his entire life, affecting his career and his priorities as well as the talents and passions of his children.

In December of 1941, the United States was dragged into World War II after the Japanese bombing of Pearl Harbor, Hawaii. Enraging the passions of the American youth, nearly every capable young man enlisted in the armed forces to supplant the axis powers that threatened American democracy and much of the free world. After graduating from High School in 1943, Samuel enlisted in the army where he was assigned to India to transport supplies along the Burma Road. His service in India saw relatively little combat, but he always managed to play up the combat that he did see. In an interview with my father, Allen relates how his father improved on a bridge repair story every time he told it. This is the story in which he did see some combat, affectionately referred to as “There I was, Surrounded by the Enemy”.

Earliest Version: Dad (Sam) and his friend were driving along the Burma Road at night with a cargo of beds. They came to a small bridge with a board removed. Dad got out of the truck to replace the board. He replaced it. He got back into the truck and as they drove away someone fired a shot through the back of the truck.

Later Version: Dad (Sam) and his friend were driving along the Burma Road at night with a cargo of radio parts. They came to a bridge with several boards removed. Dad (Sam) got out of the truck to replace the missing boards. He got back into the truck and as they drove away, the enemy fired a machine gun into the back of the truck.

Even Later Version: Dad (Sam) and his friend were driving along the Burma Road with a cargo of ammunition. They came to a battle-damaged bridge. Dad (Sam) gets out to affect the repairs. He finishes and his friend drives up, he gets in, and as they drive away, a fusillade of machine gun and light canon fire tear through the rear of the truck.

Final Version: Dad (Sam) and his friend were driving down the Burma Road with a cargo of vital medical supplies. They come to a battle damaged road. Dad (Sam) left the truck to fix the bridge. As the project nears completion, enemy soldiers open fire with rifle, machine gun, and mortar fire. His friend drives up and he jumps aboard the truck’s running board. As they drive away, the bridge is completely destroyed by an artillery barrage. (Pratt 6)

Aside from the Burma Road incident, Samuel had many other adventures in India. Perhaps the one that affected him the most was in a Polo accident. As Samuel was riding out onto the playing field a gun was likely fired at him by an Indian who perhaps thought that he was British with his pale skin and blond hair.

He fell from his horse, and people, mostly Indians, rushed around to help. He would not let them help, as he could see bones sticking out of his leg. He was sent to an army hospital in Calcutta, where the doctors put a cast on his leg without cleaning it thoroughly first. He used to say that he did not know how he had avoided getting some horrendous infection, even gangrene. The setting was not too straight, which resulted in some permanent damage in his leg. One leg was shorter than the other, which made walking painful, especially later on in life. His scars were big, white, knotty things, and deeply dented into his shinbone. (Pratt-Davis 7)

He served honorably in the army until 1946 seeing peaceful resolutions and brilliant prospects for the Indians with whom he fought and worked.

After World War II and his military services in India, Samuel Pratt went home to Provo where he lived with his mother for a short time. Coming home one night he saw a skunk in the window well of his mother’s house. Frozen with wonder he stared at the skunk in the window well until his mother came out wondering what could be keeping him from checking in with her.

“Sam, what are you doing? And what is that smell?” his mom asked.

“There’s a skunk in the window well” Sam said.

“Are you drunk Sam?” she asked.

“No, Mother, but there’s a skunk in the window well.” He said with a smirk.

Looking at the window, his mother must have laughed at the strange predicament.

(Pratt-Davis 8)

Samuel told his children this story frequently to perhaps to show the sense of humor and patience that is important to maintain among family members, even if one’s assumptions of another could be considered to be offensive.

Samuel began his academic studies at BYU in 1946 where he studied music. In interviews with Debbie Pratt and Mary Emmett, his daughter in law and granddaughter, they both described Grandpa Sam as a great “ham for the arts” and “especially music”. It was for this reason perhaps that he fell for Miss Ida Louise Frandsen, whose number one passion was also music. Sam later told his daughter Kira that they were both outrageous flirts when they met in their music class. At dances, Louise would tickle the back of his neck or flip a lock of hair out of her face as she smiled adoringly into his eyes. Sam and Louise fell in love bonded by their common talents and interest in music, and in 1947 the two were married at the LDS temple in Manti, Utah. Kira described the two as silly and lighthearted. They did much with their music by involving themselves with the Salt Lake symphony and other groups and events. They purchased a small pedal harp that they learned to play together. On some evenings they would go into the mountains and play the harp and flute together. I can imagine the two in a Disney movie with little squirrels, bunnies, and fawns gathering around them peacefully as they played their music in the mountains. Whenever I see that vision though, it always ends with Grandpa Sam attempting to feed one of the squirrels a rock that is shaped like a Dorito, and getting bitten…and you wonder where Allen’s children get it from! Little did Sam and Louise know that the harp would shape their lives in more ways than they could even begin to understand. Sam and Louise did not have children for their first six years of marriage which was a trial that they bore well, even when Louise had a miscarriage before they moved to New York in 1952. The idea to move to New York came when one day Louise had the idea to move to New York, and while Samuel was at work, he came up with the very same idea. Moving across a few states in stressful enough as you wonder every mile of the road if this decision made on a whim was the right one. Seeing how they did not act on those feelings they showed themselves able to carry out with their plans to leave the home they loved. So they moved to New York with no connections, prospects, or money simply the faith that this was what they needed to do and that God would provide for them.

In 1953 Louise and Samuel had their first child in New York, John William Pratt. For six years they had waited, and now, they were parents. The joy that a father and mother feels as they look down into their child’s sleeping face must have been a joy beyond anything that their music could bring. Things were beginning to look up for them in many ways. While in New York, Samuel had worked several odd jobs along the docks as a longshoreman. After meeting opera singer Roberta Peters, Samuel toured with her playing his flute and sometimes the harp. Touring with this opera singer allowed Samuel to gain experience with his music that would lead to his job offer from Lyon and Healy Harp Company in 1955, which he accepted gladly. In an interview with my father, he told me how Samuel paraded the most with his music and academic pursuits. I can imagine that a man who strutted his musical talent as he did was proud to accept an offer from the Lyon and Healy harp building company. So again Sam and Louise packed up their bags and new baby to move across the country to Los Angeles, California. Shortly after their move, Louise gave birth to Kira Pratt. Kira was named for a Russian ballet dancer that Samuel had met in India during World War II. In 1958 my father Allen was also born in Los Angeles. Allen was named for his uncle as well as some mutual friends of Samuel and Louise. He was by far the most reserved of Samuel’s children, but also the one who became the greatest example to his children and most faithful in keeping his word and living his dreams. Sam and Louise were loving parents and always attentive to their children’s physical needs. Kira recalled a night when she began to see shadows in the dark take the shape of evil robots and monsters. When she screamed, her daddy rushed into her room flipping on the light and held her tight to reassure her that he was there and that there was nothing to be afraid of (Pratt-Davis 12-13). In 1958 Samuel was sent to Chicago to manage one of their harp factories, and in 1960 Samuel was sent back to New York to manage a different Lyon and Healy harp factory, where his designs of a beginner’s harp called the Troubadour began to sell with great success, and his model 30 harp also known as the “Princess Louise” was introduced and became very popular. Also in 1960 Sam and Louise had their last child, Carl Orson Pratt, who was named for Sam’s older brother who had died at an early age. When my father was four, Samuel took his little Allen on a special trip to the car dealership to pick up their new 1962 Ford station wagon. Though my father never said anything about them grinning from ear to ear and laughing together, I can imagine them doing so as they drove in the new car which they christened with the name of “Bessie Mae Mucho”.

Despite my grandfather’s many attributes and talents, he was a human and oftentimes, a very flawed human being. It was with great regret that in 1964 Samuel Pratt divorced his wife Louise after having had an affair with his coworker Rosalie Rebollo. From this experience come some of his children’s greatest lessons on family. From my father, “The lesson I learned from my Dad was almost a negative lesson; don’t treat your wife or children the way he treated his. He was not abusive, he was very kind, but he left his wife and those children he had with her for another family.” From my mother who met him many years after this happening she said, “I learned that we are all human and we make mistakes, but after we make them and repent, the rest of the world [including yourself and family] needs to let us move on and get past that point…you must always love your children even when they are upset with you and not pleased with how you have lived your life. That you just love everyone and accept them for who they are.” To his children he said “understand that I will still love you. Don’t ever forget that I’ll still love you (Pratt-Davis 21). Making it clear that he would always be their daddy, he paved the way for mending the horrible wrong that he had done against his family. He also became a father to Rosalie’s daughters Sandy and Chessy. Though this was a situation in which feelings were fragile, Samuel Pratt began a new course in his life with both negative and positive consequences.

For approximately fifteen years Sam wrote and composed new music, performed with many great musical groups and musicians, and built several harps as well as instructing his sons John, Allen, and Carl on how to build them. According to my father, he always had a small jealousy for the Osmond family music group. He always hoped that the Pratt Family might arise as a popular performing family. In 1964 at the World’s fair, he rounded up all his kids and had them perform a song from the Mary Poppins movie. My father hated this, but he did it in the end to humor him. Sam also recorded many of his compositions during this time. The parts that he enjoyed during this time with his children are the vacations that he went on with them to places such as Yellowstone and Mexico. Samuel’s son Carl remembers Sam placing a doughnut on the fender of the car. Little Carl was curious about this action until a bear that was almost the size of their car came over to eat it right off of the fender. Samuel’s children made deafening giggles afterwards overwhelmingly pleased with an act that is now regrettably illegal. He also enjoyed watching their academic and musical achievements such as graduation and there attending prestigious schools such as Juilliard, Columbia, the Air Force, and other places. For most of his children, Samuel saw to it that his children’s schooling was paid for by him. Seeing his children follow in his footsteps gave him great pride and joy.

In 1979, Samuel was introduced to his favorite part of life and old age, grandchildren. He was first introduced to the prospect of being a grandfather one night when my mother was leaning over a toilet with morning sickness. After suffering from guilt and self pity for several reasons, he began to think of himself as a grandfather, then as a father, and then a husband, and realized that he needed to concentrate on his family during these years, which would be his last. My mother said that it was like a child on Christmas morning for Samuel when he held my oldest sister Mary, named for Samuel’s mother, for the first time. Years later my sister Mary remembered sitting on his lap as Grandpa Sam tickled her with his beard before they played together in his painting and music studio in his larger sized house. When the Ziploc bag was invented, Grandpa Sam made it a point of teaching his grandchildren how to close and open the bags in a musical way. Before my mother and father were married in 1978, he told my mother that he had great hopes for the futures of Allen’s children, because finally one of his children had married someone with common sense. He could see his grandchildren as an extension or improvement of himself and I think that he saw in my father, a man who would not repeat his mistakes. With how he treated his grandchildren, I think he saw a fresh start and renewal of life’s blessings and potential. He lived to meet eight of his grandchildren whom he loved and cherished individually. One of his proud father and grandfather moments was when his adopted daughter Sandy gave birth to her son in the morning and performed in a harp concert the same evening. Why he was proud of her and not chastising her is something that many of his children do not and will never understand, but I suspect that a new grandchild in the morning with a topping of a wonderful musical performance by his daughter in the evening must have been an exciting day for a man who loved his family and their music. The other proud moment that I remember my father telling me about was fairly soon after my father got his pilot’s license. Samuel had been somewhat disappointed with him for choosing a military career over a university education like many of his other children had done. What changed this was when my father took him flying over the Utah Valley. In the small airplane, they flew over the mountains he loved and the terrain of the place where he had been raised. At one point my father gave him the controls to let him fly the plane, and Samuel was thrilled to have finally flown and to have soared in the heavens.

On June 22, 1985, six months before I was born, Samuel Pratt was in his studio painting when he suffered a heart attack and died. When my sister Mary was told that her Grandpa had passed away, she did not understand how or why her grandpa had gone away or what exactly he had passed through. As she entered the house where everyone shared the news, there was crying and Samuel’s surviving family was subdued in hallowed grief in respect for the life that had ended. His sense of humor and his ability to give his loved ones a feeling of self worth are what each interviewee chose to remember him by, and though every memory of him is not perfect, his legacy lives on in those moments that were perfect.

As I have done this project, not only have I committed myself to telling the rest of his life story, but I have found a grandfather and friend. Over a year ago in a dream, I saw him on the banks of a beautiful lake in Montana where I grew up. During this dream I believe he taught me his life’s greatest lesson when he told me two things. “Do not be afraid! Just be ready!” and “Who you really are, is more important than what you do.” This coming from a man, who focused on accomplishment for much of his life, shows me that he became a man who discovered what was most important in life. Son, daughter, husband, wife, father, mother, grandfather, grandmother, priesthood holder, are the titles that really matter in the eyes of God and reliable, passionate, patient, forgiving, repentant, forgiving, and loving are the attributes which count as those rolls are performed. This is the lesson I learned from his son Allen, and that Samuel O. Pratt now teaches long after his death.

Special thanks to the following who participated in the making of this project. I cannot wait to finish telling this story which is also theirs!

Emmett, Mary A. Telephone interview. 19 Nov. 2010.

Pratt, Deborah A. E-mail interview. 30 Nov. 2010.

Pratt, Allen R. E-mail interview. 30 Nov. 2010.

Pratt, Carl O. Telephone interview. 5 Dec. 2010.

Davis, Kira P. The Life and Letter of Samuel O Pratt. The Hague, 1986. Print.

Friday, November 26, 2010

Do not Be Afraid! Just be Ready!

 Just recently in the place of dreams, I met a man who I had only heard of, but with whom I share everything. I do not know why he chose to visit me now, but there can be no doubt that he did visit me, and turned my heart to that which is most important.


Grandpa in uniform during WWII

I grew up in Montana. Untamed, untouched, and unconquered. Since then I have seen Portugal where I taught the gospel of Jesus Christ, and I have moved to the good land of Arizona, where I met the love of my life. Portugal is the land of discovery where I discovered and found myself, and Arizona is the land where I found love and my lifelong friend. Understanding the purpose of these two places in my life has made me question, "What did I find in Montana?" I think that this is the reason that this man chose to visit me at this location during my dream, the Rocky Mountains of Montana in the beautiful forests of Glacier National Park. There I learned what I had never thought of before, from a man I had never met. I had simply looked at him, mystified by the man who was my father's father, as I did at the mountains in Montana, never understanding the majesty or complete significance of their lessons. It is important to know where I was visited and who visited me; for it was there that the lesson could be learned. It was where he knew I would listen.

The banks of Two Medicine Lake
I woke up on the banks of Two Medicine Lake in Glacier National Park., in a white canvas tent. The sun lit up the tent to where all I could see was light, but not a blinding light, just the light of day through a tent. To be honest, it was a confusing place to wake up in, but a voice said, “Do not be afraid, just be ready!”

I got up and walked to the door of the tent, and there I saw that I was wearing no shoes and all white. My skin was perfect, without blemish, scar, or any flaw.

“I am dead.” That was my only thought. All of my understanding of death indicated that my body had gone away, and it was by spirit that I now wandered. Now death is not something to be feared, but still I began to be afraid.

The voice came again, “Do not be afraid, just be ready!”

Grandpa Sam as I saw him in my dream
I know the lake well, so I began to walk its rocky white shore. The lake water was not freezing this time; it seemed to be as refreshingly warm as the Atlantic Ocean I knew in Portugal. The rocks did not hurt my feet; they were as soft as sand and the water they now touched. All of the rocks were white, but occasionally there were stones that were black and shiny. All of the stones were unique, but some were extraordinary. It was then that he appeared, and I remembered what was whispered twice, just minutes before, “Do not be afraid, just be ready!”

At first, I thought it was Dad as he smiled with his whole face, just like Dad does. His eyes were peaceful, and he stood ready to receive me, like Dad does after a long separation of not seeing each other for a while. The only thing that did not look the same was his black hair and goatee. Speaking to me in an even and peaceful tone, he said.

“Eric, I have waited your whole life to know you.”

I did not recognize his voice, but it sounded familiar. I looked at his face again, and saw even more of my father than before, but it was not him.

“Who are you?”
Grandpa looking like my dad.

Walking towards me, with his hands behind his back, he chuckled to himself.

“I suppose that it is obvious now that you have never seen me as I have seen you, but it is time that you do." Then in an even and calm tone of voice, he said "I am Samuel; your Grandfather.”

Nothing could have prepared me for meeting a man I knew to be dead. I knew for sure, that I was dead. I was scared, and my thoughts turned to my wife JoElla. Was she to be a widow after only two years of marriage? Would we be denied the blessings of children? What could she do if I was no longer there? What could I do in a place of death so far away from her? The thoughts and questions were racing, and my mind was disturbed at what would become of her and I.
As my grandfather saw worry overcome me, he simply embraced me saying, in the same voice I heard from earlier. “You are not dead, and neither am I. Do not be afraid! Just be ready!”

As Grandpa Sam embraced me with all the love that he possessed, I realized that in this life, I had never known a grandfather’s love or the kindness that this man possessed for me, without ever knowing me. He indeed was not dead, and did indeed know me, and this, I did not understand.
Grandpa Sam as I saw him in another experience. I will tell that story in a future blog post.